Laura C asked: The dresses I got might be kinda tight on the ****….I don’t want any pany lines on my bridesmaids!
So would it be rude to ask them all to wear a thong?
Do you think it is necessary?WILBURN
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Yes…that is rude. I know it’s your wedding and all…but you have no right to tell ANYONE what kind of underwear to wear!
I think it’s wrong to ask them to wear a dress so tight they need to wear thongs! But you can always ask….
Don’t you think they would figure that out for themselves.
You don’t have to tell them too. If they are smart girls, they should figure it out themselves! Who wants panty lines? I don’t.
Yes.
Not all people feel comfortable in that kind of underwear.
You want beautiful pictures, right? The only way to get beautiful pictures out of everyone is if everyone feels beautiful. I wouldn’t ask them to do anything that may make them uncomfortable.
Besides, there are plenty of different underwear out there that don’t have panty lines other than thongs (and that frankly give better booty support anyway cause thongs do nothing for the rear).
No, there are some things you have to wear for fashion and thongs are necessary for some styles….unless they wanna go w/o undies
Yes, it would be incredibly rude. In the first place, you oughtn’t make them wear tight or revealing clothing – it’s a wedding, not a club. In the second place, you don’t get to dictate anyone’s underwear, especially not given that many women consider wearing a thong to be a permanent wedgie. And that’s ignoring the health risks from wearing a thong.
YES, those things are evil.
They have body shapers that do the same thing without having **** floss on.
You really need to get a grip on reality. Let the girls wear whatever kind of underwear they feel most comfortable in.
You could bring it up and ask, but I think they wld probs find it funny more than anything. U cld say instead, ‘they will be tight on the butt, so make sure that you don’t have panty lines, and if needs be wear a thong’. That way your not asking! Good luck xx
No, it’s your wedding. If they dont want to then they can have everyone staring at there panty lines I guess lol.
Yes, incredibly so. I would have to back out of your wedding, because there is no way in heck I would wear a thong. You could suggest to them that since the dresses will be snug in back, perhaps pantyhose with no underwear would make them feel secure. But why would you make them wear anything that is that tight??
i dont think it would be rude to ask. unless any of your bridesmaids are totally against thongs then there should be no problem. just sit them all down and explain to them why you are asking. the only thing rude would be if you told them they had to, instaed of asking them as a favor to.
If they are your bridesmaids, i’m sure you’re close to them, right? I know that I would be able to tell my sister and best friends that they don’t want panylines, but if you think some of them might take it wrong, you might want to do it like this:
Hey Sarah, I just talked to Jane and she said that her panty-line shows really badly in her dress so she’s going to wear a thong. Are you planning on doing the same thing, or does your panty-line not show?
Yes. Are you really concerned with people looking at your bridesmaids ***** all day instead of you, the beautiful bride?
You need to think about what you are about to do and get some perspective on the situation.
That is extremely rude. You have no choice on what type of underwear someone wears. What if someone thinks thongs are tasteless? Do you want to risk losing offending someone you care about?
There are panties that do not have panty lines. You can suggest those.
Sounds awesome
I think it is absolutely ok for you to tell them to wear thongs. If they can’t change their panties for one night so that the dresses don’t bunch over granny panties they shouldn’t be in the wedding! I had to dye my hair blonde for my friends wedding and i told her she had to lose 20 lbs. It may be a bitchy thing to do, but as a bride you can be!
I think it would be rude to ask them to wear something they may not be comfortable in. Please don’t turn into Bridezilla!
Course it is rude! Why dont u choose a less tighter dress!
That’s awful. Is it better for them to be picking the wedgy out of their ***** all day? I **** THONGS. I don’t want some string lodged in my **** *****. If they need to be careful about panty lines, then they can get Spanx.
Yes, this definitely crosses over into Bridezilla. You can *suggest* that a thong might be a good idea, but it would be rude of you to *request* or *insist* on it. Don’t worry about controlling every little detail, just enjoy the day.
Anyone that will be staring at your bridesmaid’s **** instead of at the bride… well, they are the type who will stare no matter what she wears, so it doesn’t matter.
I think it is a little rude. I mean you’re dictating everything else they wear can’t you at least let them be comfortable in the underwear they want to wear? Why did you get dresses that would be tight there? If any of them are insecure about their a$s this is going to make them feel really uncomfortable and self conscious all night.
Of course it isn’t right. They have panties that show no lines. They cover the entire rearend. You will be able to tell they are wearing a thong and will look yucky.
Why don’t you make these a part of the dresses. They can choose which ones they feel comfortable in. They are guaranteed no panty lines and are by Jockey. You can probably find them in the stores too.
BRIDEZILLA!!!!!!!!!!!
I think you’re going overboard in telling them what kind of underwear to choose. I wouldn’t wear a thong, even if you told me to.
You don’t have to tell them what kind of underwear to wear, but you can tell them that you don’t want panty lines to show. Your wedding. Not rude to tell them what to wear…..
The last time it was appropriate for anyone to be telling any of your bridesmaids which underwear to wear was when they were 4 years old and their moms had to dress them.
You’re not the only person in the world who has figured out the concept of pantylines. If you really consider your bridesmaids to be inept at dressing themselves, you’re not a very polite friend! Honestly, I’d be offended if my friend implied that I was so incapable of choosing appropriate undergarments that she needed to TELL me what kind of underwear to wear. I’ve been dressing myself for over 20 years now – I think I can handle picking out my own underwear, and so can your bridesmaids.
Wow, bridezilla calling. You can’t tell someone what kind of undergarment to wear.
Edit: Sometimes thongs give worse pantylines in dresses.
If you’re really close to your bridesmaids, just tell them.
They should be cool with it.
Yes, that’s rude. Surely they all know how to wear appropriate undergarments with their dresses. If not, then it’s seriously none of your concern.
You are micromanaging. Take a deep breath, step back, and focus on what’s really important here.
Sure that’s OK but they may not all want to do it.
I think you’re just a troll. Seriously, are you taking photos of their *****? If this is all you’ve got to worry about, your wedding planning is going remarkably well.
I think they should be able to figure this out for themselves. There are also many panties that aren’t thongs which do not show panty lines. You could mention it in passing to your bridesmaids, I honestly don’t see the big deal if you do, but do it in a nice way.
yes it is horribly rude. A lot of people don’t like thongs either.
What you COULD do, is offer to buy them a pair of Spanks. If the dresses are really that tight the spanks would smooth them out anyways. And with spanks there are no pantylines, they run right down your thighs. I LOVE spanks and would LOVE anyone to buy me a pair. At least that way it’s something they can use again and again.
Underwear is personal. You get to pick yours and they get to pick theirs. If there are panty lines, then you’ve chosen a dress that is not reasonable. Enough said?
TOTALLY WRONG and rude too. They are big girls. You don’t need to dress them.
That is rude to request or demand that. If this was going to be an issue, you should not have gotten such formfitting dresses.
You can request it, but don’t demand it.
Don’t worry about it. If it doesn’t bother them then don’t let it bother you. You won’t be judged by the panty lines on your girls.
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